To evaluate this, I must consider:
My Values: Am I acting in alignment with the values that matter most to me? such as kindness, resilience, honesty, or growth?
My Reactions: When faced with challenges or conflict, do I respond in a way that I’m proud of, or are there patterns that I’d like to shift?
My Goals: Do my actions in relationships and challenges help me move closer to being the person I aspire to be?
If there’s a gap between how you act and who you want to be, that’s a great opportunity for growth. For instance:
• If patience is a value you admire but you feel reactive, you could focus on strategies to pause before responding.
• If in relationships, you feel you aren’t fully present or communicative, you could aim to deepen those connections. You must break the surface, what’s beyond is the true beauty.
If you can take one thing valuable from this, please learn how important accountability is. Hold yourself accountable for your situation, we all have the same 24 hours in a day. Your future starts in your day to day decisions, meaning how do you react to daily obstacles? How your life goes depends solely on your answer.